1. What kind of clients do you see?
I am inviting single men, women, or couples only. This is a very intimate offering which requires your full attention – physically, emotionally, and energetically.
I am in my forties and kindly ask that you are an adult my age and up. I am open to seeing younger people as long as they are emotionally mature.
Our communication is discrete, and it goes both ways, please.
2. How do I prepare for our date?
Before our date, please, practice the meditation I’ve provided you with at least once a day. Be clean and scent free – no aromatic shaving creams, colognes, deodorants, please. No drugs and no alcohol. Have a light meal before we meet, be on time, and thank you!
3. Deposit & Payment
I accept cash, e-transfer, and certain gift certificates for deposit.
Deposits are non-refundable and contribute to the total cost of your appointment.
4. Gifts
Please, know that gifts are never expected.
But… if you would like to bring me something a little special, I’d enjoy beeswax/soy candles, flowers, coconut water, mineral bath salts (Aura Cacia), a gift certificate (Yaletown Wellness Center, Whole Foods), or whatever else you think will please my senses. I am grateful for you taking that extra step!
5. What is “tantra” and “tantric sex” in a nutshell?
“Tantra – is the ancient science which uses specific techniques to expand and liberate the consciousness from its limitations” (“Kundalini Tantra” by Swami Satyananda Saraswati, p.443, 2013). More about Bihar Yoga here.
Tantric sex is an intentional, meditative form of sex which, along with experiencing high levels of sensuality and pleasure, aims to move sexual energy throughout the body for healing, transformation, and enlightenment. Tantric sex circulates from slow to fast to moderate in order to maintain a satisfying level of arousal and to control physical ejaculation. It is a sacred practice of staying open, vulnerable, sensitive, and present all the way through.
6. How do I control my ejaculation?
There are different schools of thought that explain how to manage sexual energy/ejaculation. You can look up Master Mantak Chia (Taosist tantra) or David Deida (Indian tantra). Like any mastery, this takes time. My answer here is short and hopefully will help to start you off on your tantric journey: you can control your ejaculation by practicing focused breathing. Sexual energy follows our breath directed by the mind. You can lessen the intensity of your sexual energy in your genitals by moving it to a different part of your body and/or into your partner’s body. Spreading the sexual energy through your entire being is a very enjoyable process and is a foundation of the famous “whole body orgasm.”
7. Why a Tantric Date?
If you’ve been curious about Tantra but don’t know where to begin – this is a perfect start. I will introduce you to the basics of tantric arts and provide you with the resources to continue the practice on your own;
If you’ve been single for while and feeling uneasy about entering the dating scene – the tantric date experience will help you build your confidence and be intentional and more clear about a dynamic with a new partner;
Learning and practicing the methods of harnessing your sexual energy makes you a better lover!
It’s an opportunity for a deeper self-discovery – your emotions, traumas, talents – in a safe and supportive environment;
Meditative sex creates a safe space for exploring your love skills and preferences; it increases your capacity for intimacy with yourself and others.